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Olympian
Posts: 10697 (11/23/09 7:08 PM) |
A Small Survey,
Are you happy with your life? are you living it the way you wanted? or r u living compromising life? If it is other please explain What is your life? (Result) |
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Commander
Posts: 408 (11/23/09 7:21 PM) |
As Gabrielle says- "Life is only what you make of it."
I've had a very tough life, my Dad and nana died in '97 when I was only 2 and 3 years old. My brother is mentally disabled and used to attack me, literally all the time and out of the fifteen years I've been living I've been bullied for eleven of them. I spent ages being really down and reserved. I watched Xena, and it taught me to fight back. Gabrielle's optimism gave me incentive and Xena's fighting spirit taught me to fight to be happy and not to be pushed around; and also that it's never too late to change. (Also, turning to my religion and my GOD helped too.  )
So now, this year really, my life totally rocks! I'm living it exactly like I've always wanted to and I'm making the most of it. If something bad happens I look at anything positive and try to work from that to put things back together. I don't allow myself to be pushed around anymore so life rocks!!!! Woo!!! For anybody that votes not happy, really, I would reccomend taking a lesson from Xena; it really helps. And we're all gonna die someday so make the most of you life and be happy! Smile!  Since doing that, life has been exactly like I've always wanted. Better even!!
(Sorry for the rant! I'm honestly just happier than I've ever been. )
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Olympian
Posts: 10699 (11/23/09 7:22 PM) |
Anarchy Angel wrote: I am happy for your success and strong fight back , Wish you all the luck
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Commander
Posts: 410 (11/23/09 7:28 PM) |
Thanks!
I've gotten so much already!
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Commander
Posts: 602 (11/24/09 12:22 AM) |
I think my life is ok... not completely deliriously happy, but I don't expect that for a while yet :P
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Olympian
Posts: 11527 (11/24/09 6:41 AM) |
That's really hard. On one hand I'm happier than I've ever been because I've found the love of my life, but on the other hand, everything else
pretty much sucks, and some things are really depressing the hell out of me. (health issues, parents, etc...) I have my baby though so I have many many moments
of utter happiness, and many many things to look forward to and be hopeful and optimistic about.
ETA: I voted other btw. 
"...it's because of you I feel so lifted,
I've been looking at my life from higher ground,
never thought that I'd be so elated, you're the one who turned it all around, now baby, I didn't know myself until you changed me, and made me understand that... if you want me, I must be doing something right, I've got nothing left to prove, and it's all because of you, so if you need me, and baby I make you feel alive, I know I must be doing, doing something right..."  My darling baby Evie...I love and adore you with all my heart and
soul...forever and always
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One Star General
Posts: 1780 (11/24/09 7:38 AM) |
Hm I picked 'Others'.
My life revolves around school at the moment. I don't have time to do so many things, and I resent school for forcing me to pick and choose. But I do love school, I just do not enjoy how I have to pick between being online and going to school. On the other hand, there's been so many things going on for the first time, and while I'm stressed out, I am delighted that my life is heading in a positive direction for once. Thus, 'Others', because I feel that my life isn't exactly great, nor is it compromised in any way; it's somewhere in between perhaps? |
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One Star General
Posts: 1005 (11/24/09 7:44 AM) |
Other.
My life is in limbo. I finished University and have spent the last 3 years supporting my partner while she finishes grad school. After she's done, I think our life will really start. Overall we're very happy, just trying to find our way.
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Three Star General
Posts: 3148 (11/24/09 10:58 AM) Harpy Hunter
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I'm pretty happy but things are somewhat compromised right now.
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Warrior-in-Training
Posts: 238 (11/24/09 11:59 AM) |
Think i'm happy! Married,wife and kid and a job
What is hard these day's so i think i'm pretty ok
Brigitte
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Olympian
Posts: 11531 (11/24/09 12:28 PM) |
cookingwithjuices wrote:I feel that way too.
"...it's because of you I feel so lifted,
I've been looking at my life from higher ground,
never thought that I'd be so elated, you're the one who turned it all around, now baby, I didn't know myself until you changed me, and made me understand that... if you want me, I must be doing something right, I've got nothing left to prove, and it's all because of you, so if you need me, and baby I make you feel alive, I know I must be doing, doing something right..." My darling baby Evie...I love and adore you with all my heart and
soul...forever and always
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Warrior
Posts: 574 (11/24/09 12:37 PM) |
I don't ask my self if I'm happy with life, I ask my self if I'm happy with what I do in life, causing a massive discussion about ethics with my
self. Thus meaning that I have mixed feelings.
Right now I wish I had a permanent job (till I quit or get fired due to a massive mess up) rather than being a substitute at the post office for a month. Sure, a job with a full time payment and a night shift addition to it. But still, it's only a month. Not even that as it's in December. So I'm happy but bored and not happy. Happy that it's changing, bored because it's changing to slowly and not happy because most of the time it doesn't change toward the better. But life is unpredictable, so anything can happen, which makes me happy as well.
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One Star General
Posts: 1186 (11/24/09 1:41 PM) |
Other.
Stressful. Hard. At the moment, pretty hectic and taking it out of me and getting me down. But in the grand scheme of things, situation wise, I really am very lucky. My life could be a helluva lot worse, so what do I have to complain about really. So really, it's pretty fricking awesome when you think about it.
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Commander
Posts: 626 (11/24/09 3:07 PM) |
My life is great.
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Olympian
Posts: 10718 (11/24/09 3:12 PM) |
I'm living lmy life ike i always wanted (1 / 7.7%) (only one vote..i am surprised)
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One Star General
Posts: 1296 (11/24/09 4:21 PM) |
I don't know.
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Royal
Posts: 7305 (11/24/09 5:33 PM) XOC Forum Host |
A roller-coaster. That's what my life is, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
 
[noun] gradual improvement or growth or development;
"advancement of knowledge";
"great progress in the arts"
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Warrior-in-Training
Posts: 286 (11/24/09 10:30 PM) |
I dunno really, I kinda feel like my life is in neutral in a way. In a lot of ways I've got a really good life. I have a good job that I enjoy for the most
part. I get along really well with my parents and my sister and her family. I have some great friends, both here in Auckland and online. And thanks to my late
partner I was able to buy my first home 2 years ago (her estate wasn't very large, but it was just enough for the house deposit. It felt like that was what
she'd want me to do with it.) I really enjoy having a home of my own, neither answering to anyone or dependent on anyone, it's just me and my cat. So
my life doesn't suck, not by a long way, I'm actually kinda proud of how far I've come in the 5 years since my partner passed away. It just
doesn't feel like my life is going anywhere. The one thing I'm missing is someone to share it with. But if there's a new love out there for me I
haven't met them yet. Hopefully one day...
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First Citizen
Posts: 136 (11/25/09 2:00 AM) |
At the moment I can't refrain myself from saying I hate my life.
I am depressed and past issues have always had a massive impact on my life that I fear I will never be able to leave behind, even though i'm seeing help. My college life isn't too great either, if the above issues hadn't gotten in my way I probably would have passed year 1 and 2 of college and would be in Uni now, but they did and im resitting my exams yet again. The college course is the best you can do and it's really stressful. Im constantly worrying about confidence, bullying and trust issues. Also, because of the course my social life and took a more quicker downfall (even though thats oretty had to do in the state it was in before) and I feel myself losing more and more in touch with my friends. I find it hard to see a future for myself and I'm in one constant battle when it comes to education "Why must I continue to stress and work hard over a degree when my life has been hell, when so many others are born into fortune when they have walked a golden path". Many people may point it down to my age, which annoysme even more and makes me think that im not taken seriously. I know my age has nothing to do with it so why wont anyone listen? Anyway, thats my rant for the day  .
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Olympian
Posts: 9773 (11/25/09 7:04 AM) |
I'm sorta mixed.
My life doesnt totally suck but so much has ended at the one time its really taking its toll. uni finishing is painful and depresing and i havent been dealing with it well. That and i've lost other things i once relied on. In real life i feel unnecessary and the more i do o try and change that the worse that feeling seems to become. At the same time, i'm free from the stress of uni and i have built relationships with new people or grown closer to those that had always been there. I'm looking forward to things in the future such as con. So i voted other, because my life is a litle bit of a jumble right now
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Two Star General
Posts: 1965 (11/25/09 7:18 AM) |
*goes for the 1st reply and now regrets it*
But I shall just type out something that will make me doing that make some sense. ummmm..... *thinking* Ok so I have to say that I am happy at least one time a day. TRULY HAPPY 365 TIMES MINIMUM a year! I know there is stuff in my life that makes me feel crazy for saying this. but somehow can i refute it. I can always find some sort of JOY. and I don't even have to look hard. It maybe cause I'm easy... give me some LOVE and I BEAM. but it is also because that beats out all the stuff that has been hurting. So when I tell you you've made me laugh, or smile or just plain ol' happy. You've just made my life better, and have made sure that I got the daily dose that keeps me going no matter what. And there are some people who do this for me every time we talk. you my loves know who you are! Thank you for making me so content with my life!!!!  <<<<<< i'm that happy ATM!
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